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ABOUT LORETTA
I used to organise my life
around keeping the peace too.
I work with women who are exhausted from holding everything together. I know that feeling. I've lived it.
"I will not ask you to do anything i have not done myself"
LORETTA DAVIE
Approach | Transformational Coaching · Event Havening · Trauma Informed · Nervous System Resolution
"For a long time, I was the one holding everything together. Competent on the outside. Privately carrying far more than anyone around me realised."
I knew how to read a room. Smooth things over. Stay steady for everyone else. I was good at it.
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What I was less good at was noticing what it was costing me.
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My life involved a lot of movement. Relocations, adjustments, rebuilding. Three children. A marriage. Other people's needs that always seemed more urgent than my own. I was capable. So I kept going. That's what you do.
THE STORY
Then things got harder.
My son became seriously ill. I lost my dad and my father-in-law within months of each other. Life stacked things up before I had finished processing the last one. I was carrying old pain I had never properly put down.
On the outside, I still looked fine.
Inside, I was running on survival. I just did not have a name for it yet.
What I eventually understood was that the way I had learned to operate had been shaped long before any of that. I'd learned early that staying manageable, staying easy to be around, was how you kept things safe. My body had taken that lesson seriously.
The patterns that exhaust you were not created by your thinking mind. Working at the level they actually live is what changes them.
That realisation didn't fix anything on its own. Working at the level it actually lived, not talking about it endlessly but resolving it, changed things in a way that nothing else had.
That is what brought me to this work.
WHY IT MATTERS
Not theoretical
Done.
I'm telling you this because what I offer isn't theoretical.
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I won't ask you to do anything I haven't done myself. I know what it takes. I know what gets in the way. I know what it feels like when something actually shifts, not as an idea, but in the body. In real life. In how you move through a room.
TRAINING
Qualified to work where it counts.
I chose this training because I needed something that worked at the level the patterns actually live. Not more frameworks for thinking about them. Something that resolves them.
The women I work with have already done plenty of thinking. What they need, what I needed, is work that gets underneath that. That's what brought me to Paseda360, Event Havening, and Limitless Light Therapy.
Based in Gloucestershire. Working with women across the UK and overseas via Zoom or in person across Gloucestershire, Worcestershire, and Herefordshire.
- Transformational Life Coach
- Certified Paseda360 Advanced Practitioner
- Trauma-informed methods
- Limitless Light Therapy Practitioner
- Trained in Event Havening